Eulogy quotes about dad

Below are twenty-five sourced, attributed lines for a father's eulogy, grouped by tone. We have skipped the overused Pinterest lines. These are the ones we have seen land in real rooms.

Tender (six)

• "The work of a father is endless, and it is the world." - Wendell Berry, Hannah Coulter
• "I cannot think of any need in childhood as strong as the need for a father's protection." - Sigmund Freud, Civilization and Its Discontents
• "Any man can be a father, but it takes someone special to be a dad." - Anne Geddes, Down in the Garden
• "My father did not tell me how to live. He lived, and let me watch him do it." - Clarence Budington Kelland, often attributed
• "He did not tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it." - Variant, same source
• "The most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother." - Henry Ward Beecher

Funny (five)

• "My father used to play with my brother and me in the yard. Mother would come out and say, 'You are tearing up the grass.' 'We are not raising grass,' Dad would reply. 'We are raising boys.'" - Harmon Killebrew
• "When I was a boy of fourteen, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be twenty-one, I was astonished at how much he had learned in seven years." - Often attributed to Mark Twain
• "Father taught us that opportunity and responsibility go hand in hand. I think we all act on that principle." - John D. Rockefeller Jr.
• "A father is someone you look up to no matter how tall you grow." - Folk saying, Anonymous
• "Old as she was, she still missed her daddy sometimes." - Gloria Naylor, Mama Day

Faith-based (five)

• "Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it." - Proverbs 22:6
• "Like as a father pities his children, so the Lord pities them that fear him." - Psalm 103:13
• "A good man leaves an inheritance to his children's children." - Proverbs 13:22
• "Honor your father and mother, that your days may be long." - Exodus 20:12
• "He has shown you, O man, what is good: to do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God." - Micah 6:8

Working-class (four)

• "He worked with his hands his whole life. He worked with his heart too. I never knew where one stopped and the other started." - Common eulogy line
• "The harder I worked, the luckier I got." - Often attributed to Samuel Goldwyn
• "A man should work. A man should provide. A man should be present. My father did all three." - Common eulogy line, source unknown
• "Genius is one percent inspiration and ninety-nine percent perspiration." - Thomas Edison

Military and service (five)

• "Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one's life for one's friends." - John 15:13
• "The brave men, living and dead, who struggled here, have consecrated it, far above our poor power to add or detract." - Abraham Lincoln, Gettysburg Address
• "He served. That word was enough for him. I think it is enough for us today." - Common eulogy line
• "It is the soldier, not the reporter, who has given us freedom of the press." - Charles M. Province
• "A hero is one who knows how to hang on one minute longer." - Often attributed to Norwegian explorer Fridtjof Nansen

How to use a quote in a eulogy

Pick one. Two at the most. The eulogy is your voice, not a parade of borrowed lines. Use the quote as a frame at the open or as a landing point at the close. For more on the close, see eulogy closing lines. For openings, see eulogy opening lines. Companion piece for mothers: eulogy quotes about mom.

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Common questions

Should I open or close with the quote?

Closing often lands harder. A well-chosen line at the end gives the room the last image. Opening with a quote can work, but the eulogy will be stronger if the quote earns its place by the end.

Are military quotes always appropriate?

Only if your father was a veteran or first responder. Forcing a service quote on a civilian father reads as inauthentic.

Do I credit the source?

Always. A short "as Wendell Berry wrote" is enough. The room respects the work.